Gaurd Your ship

We live in a world where relationship is very important.

God himself made us realized how important this is to every human and that was why He said "It is not good for a man to be alone" and then afte,He made a woman,a companion for the man.

  In our world today,one of the reasons why a lot of people are sad,is loneliness, everybody want to feel loved.No matter how unsocial and introvertic you are,you still have a few people you always want to be around.These people are people you connect with,you make contact with them and you hold them so dearly that it is always not easy to break away from them because of what you share together.

   Just as Eve who was meant to be a companion to Adam made him betray God,so are some people in our lives.They are people who will see as our everything but they might end up making us purposeless.

When God wants to lift a man,he sends a man to him and when the Devil wants to bring a Man down,he will do the same

The people in your life can make or Mar you,they help or destroy you,they can lift you,bring you down or even neutralize your existence.

You don't make everybody your friend.Jesus said Love all not make all your friends and that's where discernment comes up.

One thing I never do is force a relationship,I don't try to be friend with anyone,when you support what I am after,we end up being friends and at the end of the day,we won't even remember how we became close.

You have to deliberately choose the people you allow into your life,all the devil needs is one man that will make you chat when you are suppose to pray,just one person to make you break those vows you made to your Creator.

The Devil don't need plenty people to make you start taking drugs,just one person is enough. So you need to be intentional about the kind of friends you have,don't just rush into a relationship to kill loneliness,it might end up killing you as well.

You are so important to God and he is interested in you fulfilling purpose, that's why some of us won't have the whole world as friends, He deliberately pick your friends for you.

I remembered talking to my teenage friend and she was like "Guys don't call me and ask me out like they do ask my other friends out,maybe I am not pretty enough"

I had to let her know,she isn't like the others,she is different and even the girls she referred to as friends ain't suppose to be her friend.

God is keeping her because He wants to do something with her life.

There are times you give your all for a relationship to work out and in the end,it never'd work out,it maybe God keeping you away from so many mistakes but most times we end up fighting so much because they will always tell us to fight for the ones we love and we end up regretting ever fighting

Don't choose your friends because of how beautiful, fashionable they,oh she can dress well,she has so much clothes,I can take her or him anywhere,oh she is a make up artiste,I can get free make up  now,don't choose friends because of some cheap benefits you will get from them and then end up trading your purpose and relationship with God for it.

Choose your Spec!

Don't allow everybody into your life,gaurd your ship deligently for out of it are the issues of life,a friend can corrupt your well groomed heart.

So in your ship of friends,make sure you are the captain and decide who enters into it.

Don't just shout I rule my world with toxic friends around ,they will collect your mantle and exchange it for an ordinary stick.

Be wise